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Family Resting Day

As you may or may not know, our family has and is still in the midst of big changes.

For 6 years my husband was in full-time ministry as an assistant Pastor in Indiana. We've recently moved to Ohio. My husband is not currently on staff at a church, he is working with Steve Sjogren and together, we are all going to start a church together in the Tampa area. So, in June, we will be moving to Florida and hubby will be in full time ministry again. For now though, we are enjoying a little "sabbatical" if you will from the heavy schedule demands of working at a church.

The church that we go to in Ohio offers Saturday evening services. This works for our schedule because we are NOT morning people, and with three kids under age 5 it takes us quite a while to get everybody dressed, packed, and loaded. An evening service allows us to take as much time as we need to get going.

This means that on Sunday, we have our Family Resting Day. There are things that we all do everyday that are unpleasant. For instance, a strikers protest goes into effect every day when I make the boys do the unthinkable- get dressed! Don't even mention brushing teeth or emotions will run wild! If they only knew the crap (literally) that I have to clean up every day! Anyway, on Family Resting Day, we don't do any of those things. We stay in our jammies if we want to and we don't do anything that doesn't HAVE to be done. I fold no laundry, vacuum no floors, scrub no toilets, etc. It's fantastic! The boys love it! I got the idea obviously from the Biblical Day of Rest. Ben coined the phrase "family resting day" when he was asking me what day it was. 

 I was just reading in Dr. Phil's book "Family Matters" that it is important to spend family time together (duh, how many millions did he make off of this?) like a game night. I think this qualifies.

What do you do with your family? 

Posted on Saturday, January 27, 2007 at 12:18AM by Registered CommenterSheryl Bane | Comments4 Comments

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This sounds like so much fun. I will dream about it tonight! Since we don't have church on Sunday nights and get home from church in the mornings by noon, we pretty much chill out for the rest of the day. Usually that consists of Gray taking a nap with Daddy so that Mommy can nap or do something fun... I like that ritual!
January 27, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAdventures In Babywearing
We try to spend Sunday's just relaxing, kicking back, post-church. WE often end up out at my parents for supper, and I try to keep the tv and computer time to a minimum. Making Sundays special is something I'm working on, really.
January 27, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBeck
David's week-end is Thursday and Friday and we are always so busy... we just decided that Thursday will be family day.. no work just us!
January 28, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterNew Mama's Nest
We try to not do anything on Sunday's too. A lot of times we go see my in-laws, or one of our Grandparents. Mon. thru Sat. it's so busy we don't get to see any one. So it's nice to have Sunday for that. But yes, NO HOUSEWORK!!!
January 28, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterLife With All Boys

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